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Authentic Repentance vs. Another Smoke-Screen: Is His Change Real?

9/1/2022

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How to tell if his change is real, or if it's another manipulation.

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How can you tell if your relationship might possibly, by some sort of miracle, be on the mend? If your manipulative and abusive partner has suddenly turned a new corner and is claiming that he'll change his ways, how can you trust what he's saying to you?

Well ...  You can’t.

Until you can.


I understand that’s not at all helpful—but at the same time, it’s the truth.

​I could end this article right here—after all, what more is there to say? I can’t provide you with a definite, concrete answer to this dilemma, especially since everyone’s situation is different—and everyone’s partner is different. However, I can at least provide solid guidelines that will help you discern true change from more manipulation.
If You Want to Learn More, Read On ...
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