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Desecration of Relationships: Destroying More Myths About Pornography, Part 2

8/19/2022

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More Myths About Pornography Use Revealed
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As promised, this week's article uncovers yet more myths about pornography use, showing how destructive it is to relationships, families, and individual lives. Both the abuser and the sexually betrayed partner find their lives desecrated by the sly, shameful use of pornography, so uncovering the myths and revealing them to the light is crucial for healing and repair.
Read about  four more pornography myths:
  • Myth: Porn isn't addictive.
  • Myth: Someone who uses pornography just needs more sex from his partner. It's her fault that he's forced to watch porn. 
  • Myth: Pornography is harmless and easy to control.
  • Myth: Once a betraying partner admits his pornography use and stops, his partner should be fine. Apologize, and no harm done.
Read "Desecration of Relationships, Pt. 2"
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Desecration of Relationships: Uncovering Myths About Pornography, Part 1

8/12/2022

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Pornography immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offense.
Pornography is destructive not only to those who abuse it, but to the victims of the sexually addicted person. Marriages, families, and intimate relationships suffer on a variety levels and in many dehumanizing ways. I can't discuss all the evils of pornography in one brief post, so I’ll write about just a few--at least for now. In a follow-up post, I’ll discuss about further myths.

As always, reader feedback is valuable to me. If you have anything to contribute or something you'd like me to see discuss, just let me know.

​So much of what I write about is based on the incredible emails I receive from my readers, so please keep them coming. I appreciate your questions, comments, and feedback, and believe that building a community together is the best way to heal.

​And so, onwards and upwards!
Read my latest article about pornography myths
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How Pornography is Traumatizing Women and Destroying Marriages

8/8/2022

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Read: "How Pornography is Traumatizing Women and Destroying Relationships"
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The Stages of Betrayal Trauma, Pt. 3: Making Sense of the Situation

8/2/2022

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How do you make sense out of nonsense? Gaslighting, crazy-making, circular talk ... They can all make you feel crazy, and cause you to wonder if everything is your fault. When you realize the fault is abuse, and not you, the deep sense of betrayal and trauma can be overwhelming. However, when you can make sense of your situation, you can then progress toward gaining clarity, clear-sighted vision, and hope for the future.
Read "The Stages of Betrayal Trauma, Pt. 3: Making Sense of the Situation"
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    I'm Jenny duBay, a domestic abuse survivor and now advocate. My degree is in Christian theology with a concentration on spiritual direction, and my vocational emphasis is on helping those who have suffered from domestic abuse to heal and reclaim their true selves.

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